Introducing Tom Killian: Your Partner in Mental Health

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Welcome to Killian Counseling Services LLC! My name is Tom Killian, and I am excited to share my journey, my clinical expertise, and my commitment to supporting your mental health.

My Passion for Mental Health

I have dedicated my career to helping individuals, couples, and families navigate various mental health challenges. With a Ph.D. in counseling, I have built a strong foundation in both theory and practical application. I continuously strive to stay updated with the latest research and best practices to offer you the highest quality of care.

Experience and Expertise

Throughout my career, I have worked with many people facing different challenges, ranging from life transitions to relationship issues, grief, anxiety, and depression. I understand that seeking help can be overwhelming; therefore, I focus on creating a safe and supportive environment. Here, you can explore your thoughts and feelings without fear of judgment.

Key Publications Informing My Practice

My research has allowed me to delve deeper into important topics that inform my clinical practice. Below are some highlights from my publication history:

LGBTQ+/Queer Allyship within Religious/Spiritual Spaces

  • Fredrick, E., Killian, T., & Merenda, F. (in press). Ally identity versus behavioral intent: The role of knowledge, hate, and religious conflict. Pastoral Psychology.
  • Floren, M., Killian, T., & Peters, H. C. (2024). Exploring the interplay of religiosity, spirituality, and messaging in relation to queer allyship and activism in affirmative contexts. Journal of Counselor Leadership & Advocacy, 11(2), 105–123. https://doi.org/10.1080/2326716X.2024.2360187
  • Killian, T. & Fredrick, E. (2024). “God loves all equally and infinitely”: A mixed methods analysis of LGBTQ+ ally development within religious/spiritual contexts. Journal of Homosexuality, 71(6), 1507-1535. https://doi.org/10.1080/00918369.2023.2177130
  • Killian, T., Peters, H. C., Floren, M., & Fredrick, E. (2023). The relationship between religious identity and ally identity/expression within affirming contexts. Journal of Professional Counseling: Practice, Theory & Research, 1-17. https://doi.org/10.1080/15566382.2023.2235960

Religious/Spiritual Conflict within LGBTQ+/Queer Communities

  • Killian, T., Peters, H. C., Chan, C. D., & Attia, M. (2024, online first). The intersections of queer, gender, and religious socialization: A collaborative autoethnography. International Journal of Qualitative Studies in Education,1-27. https://doi.org/10.1080/09518398.2024.2348797
  • Killian, T., Levering, K., & Brottem, L. J. (2021). Understanding conflict between religious/spiritual and queer identities: A framework for counselors. Journal of Counseling and Values, 66(1), 145-162. https://doi.org/10.1002/cvj.12154
  • Killian, T., Rivas, M., & Sharp, M. (2022). Sexual/Affectional and religious/spiritual identities: Critical incidents associated with self-perceived identity integration. Journal of Counseling and Values, 67(1), 138-165. https://doi.org/10.1163/2161007x-67010007

Queer Partnerships

  • Peters, H. C., Killian, T., & Rivas, M. (2020). Queer male couples’ ecological and relational third space. Journal of LGBT Issues in Counseling, 14(2), 134-152. https://doi.org/10.1080/15538605.2020.1753626
  • Killian, T., Peters, H. C., & Brottem, L. J. (2019). Religious and spiritual values conflicts in queer partnerships: Implications for couples and family counselors. The Family Journal, 27(3), 250-256. https://doi.org/10.1177/1066480719853012

Multicultural and Social Justice Competency within Counseling Training and Practice

  • Killian, T., Peters, H. C., & Floren, M. (2023). Development and validation of the Multicultural and Social Justice Counseling Competency-Inventory. Measurement and Evaluation in Counseling and Development, 56(4), 329-346. https://doi.org/10.1080/07481756.2022.2160357
  • Killian, T. & Floren, M. (2020). Exploring the relationship between pedagogy and counselor-trainees’ multicultural and social justice competence. Journal of Counseling and Development, 98(3), 295-307. https://doi.org/10.1002/jcad.12324
  • Killian, T., Farago, R., & Peters, H. C. (2019). Promoting queer competency through an experiential framework. Journal of Counselor Preparation and Supervision, 12. Retrieved from https://repository.wcsu.edu/jcps/vol12/iss4/10

A Relational Approach to Therapy

At Killian Counseling Services LLC, I believe in the power of empathy and connection. My therapy approach is relational, focusing on building trust and understanding with each client. I create a welcoming space where you can share your experiences openly. Together, we will identify your goals and develop personalized strategies to help you achieve them.

Areas of Specialization

I specialize in several areas, including:

  • Grief and Loss: Losing someone can be incredibly painful. I provide compassionate support to help you process your feelings and find healing.
  • Intimacy and Infidelity: Relationships can be tough, especially when trust is broken. I work with couples to address intimacy concerns and rebuild their connections.
  • Anxiety and Stress Management: Many people struggle with anxiety and stress in today’s fast-paced world. I offer effective techniques to help you manage these feelings and regain control.
  • Isolation and Self-Esteem: Feeling isolated or struggling with self-esteem can deeply affect your overall well-being. I help clients build a stronger sense of self-worth and connectedness.
  • LGBTQ+ Affirming Counseling: As a strong advocate for LGBTQ+ individuals, I am committed to providing a supportive environment for clients of all identities.

Convenient Virtual Counseling

I understand that life can be busy, so I offer virtual counseling sessions across New Jersey. This flexibility allows you to receive support from the comfort of your own home, making therapy more accessible.

Get Started Today!

If you’re ready to explore your thoughts and feelings in a supportive environment, I invite you to reach out. Together, we can navigate the complexities of life and work towards your mental health goals.

Contact Killian Counseling Services LLC today and take the first step toward a brighter tomorrow!

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